June 3, 2009 by Venus Taylor
When someone judges or criticizes us, they’re often hiding their own fears and insecurities. We can draw them closer by giving them a chance to feel heard, and to feel safe and accepted by us.
April 24, 2009 by Venus Taylor
What do you do when your young child behaves in a way that seems rude? How do you manage your own embarrassment? How much pressure should you put on your kid to do what’s expected of him?
April 24, 2009 by Venus Taylor
Punishing and threatening children does more damage than good. Address the need behind the behavior, instead of punishing the behavior, and you’ll have a happier, more self-disciplined kid.
March 6, 2009 by Venus Taylor
Q: How do we break the poor and destructive patterns and start the healing process? – Nava
A: When we’re stuck in “patterns,” we’re not fully present. Instead of responding constructively and creatively to the present situation, we react hostily and habitually, based on memories of the past.
To break out of destructive patterns and start the [...]
March 6, 2009 by Venus Taylor
Q: My husband does not forgive/forget past hurts. What can I do? – Estela
A: It hurts when the one you love seems unable to forgive your past mistakes. Unforgiveness can keep your relationship stuck: You can’t go back and change the past, and you can’t move forward without letting it go.
Even if you’ve apologized, it [...]
